Why is it so hard?
I hear you asking this question all the time.
You just want to do something, to change something, to improve something but…. Why is it so hard?
This is usually accompanied by other such questions as ‘Why do I always say I’m going to do it and then never do?’ ‘Why am I such a failure?’ ‘Why does this always happen to me?’ ‘Why am I not as good as this other person?’ ‘Why does nobody love me?’ And other such questions of a similar nature!
So what’s the answer? Why is it so hard?
Well let’s think about it in this way. If you genuinely wanted to know the answer to something then you would ask an expert wouldn’t you? Someone who could give you an accurate answer that would tell you where you are going wrong.
So who would you ask? Who is the expert of you? Who would know the precise answers to your questions? Well, it’s you of course! Or your own unconscious mind to be more precise. It has the answers to all our questions, we just have to learn to listen to it.
But how can we do this?
Well when you ask yourself a question listen to the answer and see what comes up. So for example you may ask the question ‘Why am I not as good as this other person?’ Now listen to the answers that come up. Such answers as ‘because you’re not as young’ ‘you’re not as pretty’ ‘you don’t have as much money’ ‘you don’t have the same opportunities’ ‘ it’s easier for them’ etc etc.
You asked the question – you got the answer!
It might not be the answer you wanted and it might not have helped you in any way but you got your answer. So do you feel good? Do you feel empowered after that to make those changes or improvements that you so long for in your life? I’d say probably not!
So why is it so hard?
Because you are asking the wrong questions! Simple as that.
If you ask a better question then you get a better answer. Try it and see!
What happens if you ask the question ‘How can I make more time for myself?’ ‘How can I have more energy?’ ‘How can I get ideas for this project?’ ‘How can I be a more lovable person?’
A good example is the difference between the question ‘Why am I so fat?’ and ‘What can I do to lose weight?’ The answers you get will differ massively I’m sure.
So ask more empowering questions of yourself and make sure you listen to the answers. Ask your expert – your unconscious mind (your intuition, your gut instinct, whatever you want to call it) but we have all the answers within us, we just need to ask better questions.
So ask a good question and get a good answer. And then listen to that answer and just do it!
Try it today and see and then let me know how you get on.
If you need any help in making those changes and improvements in your life then get in touch with me now. I currently have some special offer prices but these won’t last long so don’t delay. I’m waiting to help you transform your life.